In today’s episode of “Is my GF a slut?” we’re going to look at a young lady who had 50 penises stuffed into her vagina within a 2 month period of time. After telling her boyfriend the news, she said he felt “distant” and thinks that he should get over it already.
I had a period in my life where I wanted to have some fun. In doing so I slept with just over 50 men in a short amount of time. I told my current boyfriend of 11 months this last night and now he’s being really distant. He has been with 25 women he claims, so I don’t see what the big difference is. I’m not fucking these 50 guys currently as I only want to be with him. He says that he is worried that I will cheat on him even though I’ve never cheated on anyone before. Please help me make sense of this reddit. thanks
Wow. I’m really surprised at the number of negative comments calling me a whore or implying that I have mental problems. Why is it OK if a man were to sleep around with 50 women over a short period of time, he would be called a Player/Baller/Pimp/Hero yet when a woman does it, she’s labeled as having mental issues/slut/whore/cunt. Why is America so puritanical? So I had sex with 50 healthy men, sometimes 2 per day, but mostly a few a week. I am an attractive female who attracts good looking men. I like to have sex. Why is this so hard for the hive mind to comprehend a woman who knows what she wants? The reason why I’ve been in a relationship with my BF for 11 months is because I’m through with that. I got my kicks and got out. I am a lot more happy where I am today but that doesn’t mean I didn’t have fun doing what I did.
If you have time, you should check out the thread on reddit. It’s pretty funny how many female readers come to her rescue with comments like “She’s not a whore it’s just a number.” Personally I think this is pretty awesome, and probably far more common than most of us as guys want to admit. The simple fact is: Your girlfriend/wife/booty call, has been banged by way more people than you have. However, only a select few will admit it.
Embrace the whorishness, or shame the number?
December 29, 2009
#1
slut
straight out slut
shame on you
no self respect or morals
April 9, 2010
#2
Well. I’d say she’s someone who knew what she wanted and got it. Based on the information given. She’s attractive and at least 50+ guys thought so too. I don’t see the problem, guy or girl it doesn’t matter. The truth is we like sex.
I figure anyone here complaining is either A. rather conservative in nature (nothing wrong with that) or B. just having sour grapes (get over it, you weren’t part of the 50, boo hoo).
Also she never cheated and past is past. There’s no way of changing the past….and the fact that she didn’t cheat- ergo no foul.
So for all the guy and gals saying “Slut/Whore/Salacious Bimbo” if she did not cheat and slept with other single people. Does that in turn make you “Slut/Whore/Tramp” whenever you sleep with someone when you are single? I wish people would try harder to hold themselves up to the standards they push on others….sigh.
Well there’s my 2 cents and some change.
Have a nice day everyone
December 30, 2009
#3
The real concerning thing is the obvious lack of emotional connection in your encounters. This lends itself to believing you lack the capacity to achieve a deep intimate emotional relationship..
How did you feel during these encounters and more importantly afterwards?
January 1, 2010
#4
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January 3, 2010
#5
any person male or female who has had sex with that many people is definitely a whore and probably has a bad case of herpagonasiphilaids. I would not touch her with a 10 foot pole
April 9, 2010
#6
if you met her and didn’t know. I bet you would, Hell I probably would.
Besides she sounds smart enough to use protection and get regular check ups.
January 3, 2010
#7
I really hope that you used condoms. Damn you’re gross.
January 5, 2010
#8
You crib that when a guy sleeps with several women he is lauded a player but when a woman sleeps with even 4-5 guys she is called a slut….well consider this, if a key opens many locks it’s called a master key but if a lock can be opened by several keys it’s a shitty lock…
January 5, 2010
#9
HE SHOOTS… HE SCORES!
March 18, 2010
#10
Great frase man.. yeah thats the thing with that frase :
“Why is it OK if a man were to sleep around with 50 women over a short period of time, he would be called a Player/Baller/Pimp/Hero yet when a woman does it, she’s labeled as having mental issues/slut/whore/cunt”.
It’s challenging for men to rack up partners, even for men with low standards. It requires a certain amount of social intelligence, interpersonal skills, persistence, thick skin, and plain old dumb luck. For women to rack up a lot of partners, however, it pretty much only requires a vagina and a pulse.
its just human nature: people gain respect for those who accomplish challenging feats while they consider those who overindulge in easily obtained vices as weak or flawed.
Thus its more respected for a man to seduce few woman than a slut..
January 5, 2010
#11
WHITE WOMEN ARE WORTHLESS.
DATE ASIANS ONLY. THEY ARE OFTEN TRADITIONAL AND HAVE ONLY HAD 1 OR 2 PARTNERS. MANY TIMES THEY ARE VIRGINS AT MARRIAGE.
February 11, 2010
#12
just had to laugh at this because it’s completely ignorant… I go to rutgers & every single last asian I know is slutty as hell, even the ones that come off innocent.
March 17, 2010
#13
My asian gf slept with more than 10 girls and she is 18! O_0
January 5, 2010
#14
Let me put it this way Dear.
If you have a key that opens a lot of locks, then it’s a master key. Something of value. But if you have a lock that gets opened by a bunch of different keys, then that’s just a shitty lock.
It’s completely different because for men sex is a chore. For women, as you proved, they can get it whenever they want. Even the ugliest fattest girl could probably get laid in a meer matter of hours. For a guy to have sex with 50 women in 2 months is near impossible, you’d have to be really good with getting girls consistently.
January 5, 2010
#15
Really? Women who find out a man slept with 50 women in 2 months think of him as a “Player/Baller/Pimp/Hero”? What a mentally deranged, deluded, skank.
I remember quite a few loose whores using that exact bullshit reasoning to justify being a slut.
January 5, 2010
#16
I can’t believe most guys feel that women who have or had a lot of men are sluts.
Having sex is also a healthy game. There is nothing wrong with it. Seriously I wish I had 50 times more sex than I have right now and there is nothing wrong with that. I’d be delighted to be with a woman that like sex so much and while she could have sex with thousands of other guys choose to only stick with me. We don’t want women to have that power over us. Buth they do. And there is nothing wrong with that. Amen to you girl. Get rid of your prejudices, and live and let die !
March 26, 2010
#17
your a dumb ass skank whore
January 12, 2010
#18
All I have to say is… LOL.
I don’t know. I’m a guys girl. Football, beer pong, and UFC take presidence over gossiping or shoe shopping any day.
I’ve been in many a relationship where the sex was just fucking lame. So I left their sorry asses for something better. No, I’m not a “ho”. I’ve been sexually active for about three years now, and have had around forty guys. Why? Because I’m not going to waste my time spending months and months having boring ass sex with the same person when I could easily just go out and have fun sex with different people. As my boys say, Why buy the whole cow when you can get the milk for free? You don’t have to like someone to bang them, you just need to be horny.
GTFO, chauvinists.
January 24, 2010
#19
Nope. You’re a fucking whore. Period. End.
April 3, 2010
#20
as Jay said, you a WHORE period, and ALL your “guy” friends think so too.
This is probably the most honest advice you will ever get.
January 13, 2010
#21
My wife was a virgin when we got hitched.She was already 13 years old.(We live in W.Va..)
Told Pa she was a virgin and he said,”Git rid of her son,if she ain’t good enough fer her own family,she ain’t good enough fer ours.”
January 14, 2010
#22
The number is pretty massive in a very short period of time. And I disagree if it was a man who did it he still has questionable morals. If it would be like 50 over a four year period it would be different. Being that it was in a couple of months, you had to of done two in the same night and maybe more. My wife and myself were very sexually active prior to getting married. We also have both had large numbers, but not like you; in such a short period. I’ll be honest and tell you it would of been better to lie to him, or try to find someone not as intimidated by it. If you feel fine with it, don’t worry about it, but I’ve also got to wonder why you posted it on the internet.
January 15, 2010
#23
That Lock metaphor “pwns” the girl’s argument. Let’s put it in perspective, shall we: From a man’s POV when he get’s into a serious relationship with a woman, it usually starts with a courtship period where basically he’s spending his time, money, and piece of mind with that woman to ultimately, get into her pants. Of course it ain’t the guys MO; understand that he actually likes the woman and has a valid interest in all the quirks about her, getting in her pants is kind of “the fruits of his labor,” so to speak.
So lets just say it took maybe 2 or 3 weeks of dating, phone conversations, some “non-intercoursal” fooling around, and other miscellaneous chill sessions with said woman to actually seal the deal. And then even post-fucking the woman , the guy is buying her nice things and just highly valuing her as a person. Then comes the plot twist that she tells him 50 guys ran through her within a short period, well miss, your stock just plummeted! Your boyfriend of 11 months sees your value and he basically feels like you’ve wasted his time. No man wants to put you on this high pedestal when he finds out 50+ men, most of which you probably never got even a surname from, hit and quit with little effort. Food for thought, it may not seem fair there is a double standard, but it exists for painstakingly obvious reason
March 20, 2010
#24
incorrect. men that sleep around a lot have to find the women to sleep with – they sleep witht the women that like to sleep around, neither one of them puts in any effort or leaves knwoing the other person’s surname. the manwhores sleep with women willing to sleep with them, that’s how they rack up the numbers.
men who only sleep with people after prolonged courting, like women who only sleep with people after prolonged courting, don’t sleep with vast numbers of people. men who sleep around put in the same amount of effort as women who sleep around, they buy nice clothes, dress up, go out, and meet each other. you’re deluding yourself if you think otherwise.
January 18, 2010
#25
Hell yeah, sleep with more, 50 is good start, i would love gf to be like that, what has doing this done, nothing, peps overreact
January 21, 2010
#26
Your a slut for sleeping with all of them. You’re only considered a player if your a girl who can get what she wants based on her looks or skills and not having to sleep with the guy. otherwise, you’re as loose as a wizards sleeve.
January 27, 2010
#27
alright look she made bad choice as long as she loves the guy with it doesnt matter ok the past is past so drop it and get respect and stop calling a girl names and stuff didnt ya momma raise u betta damn son girl u aint none of them ok dont listen to these lil boys its ok but talk to him about it and tell him that u only want him and u swear u wont cheat he should understand i hope you the best of luck
March 18, 2010
#28
yeah but she doesnt admit she made a bad choise.. if my gf was all telling me how much fun she had those months getting multiple man everyday i would also get pissed off
February 14, 2010
#29
Some good points here, but I wouldn’t call her a slut. A lot of the venom in these comments is just jealousy. Are you really telling me there are guys out there that *wouldn’t* fuck two different girls a day for two months straight? Really? Oh, yeah, it’s a numbers game though, right? It took her what … a smile, a tilt of her head, a whisper of ‘Hey let’s fuck’ in a guys ear and BOOM she was parking the Sausage Bus into Tunatown? If it were a guy there would be a larger investment of time. So really the detractors are just … jealous. As to her boyfriend, his reaction is completely understandable. First, he probably hasn’t been with 25 women. I mean, half of what she had, sounds a bit too neat. Second, he’s probably trying to come to grips with the fact that his girlfriend is more experienced sexually than he is. Compared to her, he’s a noob. Third, yeah, he’s a bit shell shocked at the fact she made him work for it, but for a two month period her vagina was a revolving fucking door! I’d be taken back by that as well! Anyone would! Fourth, those 50 men do not include past boyfriends, so it’s actually 50+! And I doubt she went out of town to find dick. So walking down the street, there are 50 or more guys out there whose already hit what he had to work to get into! But, lastly, and more importantly the #1 reason he’s distant is because when she told him the news he suddenly realized he’s 100%, without a doubt, completely, totally replaceable. He ain’t worried about you cheating, honey, he’s worried if you two have a fight you’ll be on your back and spread eagle for some other guy in less than it takes for him to finish reading the comic page.
August 12, 2010
#30
This has been the best response so far. He definitely is forced to reevaluate their relationship in and out of bed due to this. If I was him I definitely would, but I would try not to just write her off. What we are is not simply a collection of what we have done, our present choices, intentions feelings and actions are how we should be evaluated.
As for the lock and key analogy, you can twist that one hundred different ways. Except, when you get to the end it’s just an analogy and those work well for explanations but hold little weight as arguments.
February 15, 2010
#31
Yep. She is a Ho, not a whore. I wouldn’t touch this woman with a 50 foot pole.
February 17, 2010
#32
If you sleep with 50 guys in a two month period and then tell your boyfriend, he will be very disturbed to hear it.
Work the numbers. How many were creeps, losers, perverts or criminals?
Your boyfriend is having a normal reaction to this.
Your decision to tell him was reckless.
February 18, 2010
#33
if you had 50 men chances are few had decent size penis and ur loose now
did u only have sex 50 times? condoms every time? I had one partner less sex cos cyclie is 2 weeks of 2 months so like 45times
March 20, 2010
#34
wtf your loose now? what do you think happens when a girl has sex with just her boyfriend 50 times? you are so dumb its ridiculous. maybe when you get married you’ll have sex once a year so your wife doesn’t end up too loose for you and stop altogether at 50 times. good luck with that.
March 20, 2010
#35
The different shapes and sizes from a lot of cock will stretch a girl more than just having one.
February 19, 2010
#36
Sorry, but your a ho. 2 guys in 1 day? My girlfriend (not from the US) was a virgin at 23 when I met her.
This is why I don’t date American chicks
March 23, 2010
#37
Were you a virgin when you met her?
February 24, 2010
#38
Sorry girls, but keep that shit to yourself, if you slept with 10 or 100 guys, it’s no one’s business. You are not a whore or a slut if no one knows. Lesson learned, shut your trap if you’re going to open your legs….
February 25, 2010
#39
after banging 50 dudes he is probably wondering why she still sucks in bed
February 28, 2010
#40
Ah, the old double standard….
The dude who gave the master key/shitty lock analogy is more on than he knows. Is there a double standard where guys are studs and girls are whores? Yes, and there is a very simple phisiological explanation for that.
In nature, the males of most species of mammals are supposed to spread their genetic legacy (read: bang) to as many females as possible in order to ensure the survival of their particular genetic code. Females, on the other hand, are responsible for raising those offspring, not allowing other males to attempt to pass on their seed as well. Thus, men are successful when they have a lot of partners, and women are looked at as irresponsible and unsuccessful if they allow many men to attempt to impregnate them.
Of course, this changes when reproduction is not a factor. When the procreative act is used simply for pleasure, the lines are blurred, but the same instinctual behaviors that lead us to having sex in the first place are still there, and this leads to the double standard.
All this being said, if my new GF told me she slept with 50 guys in the two months before I met her, I would probably be a little “distant” too–right before I walked out the door never to see her again.
March 22, 2010
#41
You’re a whore.
March 23, 2010
#42
Although, if the guy has already dated her for almost a year and she’s into him and hasn’t cheated or anything…it’s certainly news that will kick a dude back in his chair a bit, but at the end of the day it’s not THAT big of a deal. Nothing has changed minus your perspective on her.
…but 50 dudes in that short of a period is pretty gnarly
March 23, 2010
#43
I think there are some importnant points that have been missed.
First of all it’s really hard to get laid as a guy, men who do this might be respected because in order to do so they must overcome the endless hurdles women (thought not this one) throw up to prevent sex. And it’s not as if there is one slutty man for every slutty woman. Typically there is one guy in a group of men that all women eventually whore themselves out to. So it doesn’t really work out fairly and as such calling a woman out on this beahvior is more than justified.
Second, really don’t go around constantly high-fiving man whores. I lived in a frat house for years and Ben, our resident ‘stud’ was constantly lambasted for his careless behavior with the opposite sex. We’re not the animals you think we are. I promise, men will stop being sexist assholes if you stop being easy sluts……
March 26, 2010
#44
you are one nasty skanky whore that deserves nothing i hope you die alone piece of trash your boyfriend can do a lot better than your nasty snatch thats fucking gross i would run you over
March 28, 2010
#45
holy shiiiit that’s a lot. I’d give you advice on this one but from the way you told this story, I don’t think you really give a hoot about him. 50 dudes WOW. I thought ten within a year was bad never mind. Fifty too many! how many dudes did you swallow up a day? you have had to bang at least two dudes a day unless you boned a group every now and then omg it’s so dirty to even do the math! FIFTY gaaaaaaah!
March 29, 2010
#46
I hope you burn in hell, you fucking Wh0re!!! Die B1tch dieeeeeeeeeeee!
April 1, 2010
#47
You’re a ho! that’s cool just don’t tell your boyfriend if you expect to be loved…
April 4, 2010
#48
sick fuckin’ bitch; did all these guys wear a rubber?
April 4, 2010
#49
I think sleeping with 50 guys is pretty gross, but I wouldn’t make it a double standard. I would not date a guy if I knew he slept with 50 girls. More power to this gal if that is what makes her happy; I agree that a guy in the same situation would be given kudos, so kudos to her. Just not for me!
April 5, 2010
#50
thats not normal at all . u got in and u got out ? i beg to differ . i dated a girl like you who told me the truth 50 + and you nothing but a skanky cockmongraul .. you’ll never change
April 11, 2010
#51
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April 12, 2010
#52
umm 50 dudes, definetly have AID’s
April 12, 2010
#53
you really are nasty. honestly why the hell would you do that?? thats fucking retarded did you think ONE BIT about your future and how you are going to live knowing you are such a slut??
My gf only had 2 before me, but she was raped once, so i only count one. I love her, but thinking about her rape takes a toll on me every day. Sex should be something that is used to express loyalty and love for one another. Not something to hand out to 50 men. shit have some respect for yourself.
god damn. your man deserves way better than you
April 13, 2010
#54
blah blah bottom line is 50 dude in your vag. For those who had said “its ok to have sex with all kinds of people you only live once.” Go jump off a building and enjoy that rare fall you only live once, the point is if you wanna live it up bras do something that is crazy that you cant get done by just spreading your legs and blowing a whistle. Sure sex is fun, but if you base all your “fun” off sex its just as bad as smoking meth all day and you might get less diseases when you do it. Whores are stupid and should just walk around with helmets on to let people know they are retarded and try to justify bullshit. Guys need to work for their women, and if you do refer to a man whore there are only few men who are talented enough to do that. On the other hand any woman can be a slut instantly
April 28, 2010
#55
I think you are a whore who doesn’t have any morals nor self respect I will never ever get with somebody like you WHITE WOMEN NOWADAYS ARE PURE WHORES OR SLUTS not worth it. Wanna a real woman marry somebody outside the USA they know about morals and respect. PS you are a SLUT
May 24, 2010
#56
Well you are a great catch for short term fun, no matter how good looking and attractive you are you must have been very insecure cause the only reason to feel secure was to give it up so easily.
People like you can never be loyal and for those who say that it is ok for men to sleep around but not for women, well welcome to the real world kids, its true we dont want our women to have been cum buckets.
At the end of the day women have shot themselves in the foot because they think that they can fuck around then when the right man comes along you (women) have to lie- Be honest with us and let us make the decision if we want to stay with you or not.
Feminism fucked women up but I love it heres why?
- Sex is plentyful and easily available
- We dont have to spend money on women
- We dont have to commit
- We dont have to marry you
- You cant trick us with the ” I m pregnant” line Think DNA Testing
If you women cant respect yourselves and have no control who you let in, how do you expect us to take you seriously?
June 3, 2010
#57
girls dont have to work to get it..
thats why yall are considered whores if yall fuck alot..cause its as easy as opening your legs..
for us guys its a skill.. which recquires alotta hard work and sometimes let down..
June 8, 2010
#58
Disgusting. I would have no respect for a man that had slept with 50 women either. Such promiscuity is responsible for so much disease, unwanted children, and hateful relationships it is reprehensible.
July 14, 2010
#59
Actually you screwed wh**e, the reality is that if a man had done the same thing he would not only be a nasty skank (like you) but would probably either have an STD or babies on the way! Hope you learned something….like how to respect yourself?
July 15, 2010
#60
She likes sex. That’s great.
I’ve been with a 31 year-old virgin — and not surprisingly, after a while, she didn’t like sex that much. Which sucked.
Besides the STD possibility, my only concern is, can Ms. 50+ truly be honest in a long term relationship? To me, honesty is much more important than fidelity.
July 26, 2010
#61
just because you can, it doesn’t mean you should. Morals are important for men. the truth is, personally, i dream of a decent moral-filled family.
but of course everyone deserves a chance. but it really is important that you reflect on what you did in the past and show your partner that you have no plan of going back to your ol’ fun ways. because if you let people/him feel that you enjoyed what you did and doesn’t regret any of those, you’re clearly sending a message that you’d love to do it again in.
August 3, 2010
#62
If a key opens a lot of locks, it’s a master key. If a lock gets opened by a lot of keys, it’s just a shitty lock.
Deal with it.
August 19, 2010
#63
hot dog down a hallway
August 25, 2010
#64
OMG, is it reality? i just know that most of guys hate their GFs’ like this deeply. Maybe you are lucky one. In this case no guarantee such girl probably killed by her shocked and loved blindly BF. Some women are too shameless and loose. That category girls have been always hated by public & social. But in USA, respect and pride of libertarianism & freedom of individuals are considered much more important than morality. In truth, legality and morality aren’t clear independent from each other. Sometimes they are consistent, and sometimes conflicting. if one of them is haven an extreme view, it makes scandals, offences and crimes etc ., So if one wanna be accepted and respected by public & social, he/she should abide by gold average of them. Of course we live within social …
September 8, 2010
#65
Here’s the thing. You whored yourself out in the past. Your guy doesn’t want to think about all the shit that’s been inside you. He should be distant, after all you slept with 50 men In that short amount of time. Obviously, thats more than 1 a day doing the math. You’re a whore. It’s not his fault. It just proves he really likes you, and he’s dissapointed you were dumb enough to be like that. Realize this. YOU’RE A WHORE.