Comments on: So…How many guys have you slept with?

By: ToNSJofKSA

ToNSJofKSA — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 05:55:46 +0000

Why did you send me this article?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What is your point??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By: Henry

Henry — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 09:50:12 +0000

wow…

By: peter

peter — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 14:24:02 +0000

I think that to ever ask that question is one of the dumbest things in the world. Who cares? she/he is with you know. Anything on her past concerning sex should stay there. You will not get to know her better just because you know she got fucked by two guys on a taxi. It will just eat you alive the fact you know that. She is your loved one and you should care about her from the moment you met her. I see the comments and people is talking that a girl being with ten guys is a lot. Give me a break. thats nothing! it depends how old she is. But lets say she is 20. She lost her virginity around wehn she was 14. In six years 10 guys. thats like two guys a year only. I have had sex with 105 girls and I always make sure that my girls dont ever ask that. There is two answers I have for when the question comes. 1: A LOT! (followed by a laugh and a I wish! ) 2: a serious one, I think that the past is not what matters. I love you now and i think it would be dumb to put a number in our heads. it will bother us to know. I have found love and thats all it matters. And there you go. You dont have to tell. But you should not put it like you are a shame or that you are keeping it as a secret. Just that you wish to not know her number and that you feel that you would both get hurt by it. I have had 9 girlfriends in my life and I have never answer the question with a number (i am 24 years old).

By: floppyflap

floppyflap — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 11:04:46 +0000

I personally have no problem with my partner being with many guys, but the thing that gets me unnerved is not knowing the method in how each of them got lucky.

I’m just curious as to the personalities and physical types of the guys that you experienced girls have slept with

Were they mostly guys that could be considered clones of each other? Were they just a funny, masculine guy who came onto you that day when you were in the mood? what kind of guys do you go after while being drunk? Do you go through different phases when it comes to the kind of guys you sleep with? Did you like them purely on a short term sexual basis, or did you want to at least continue the flirting for a while? Were they approved of by your friends? Were they all of one race? Were they all physically built?

Just random questions like that. Of course, I’d never ask my girlfriend those questions, but I’d be more curious as to that than just a pure number. Just a quantity means nothing to me.

By: jony

jony — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:02:56 +0000

i going through that, im 17 and my girl has slept with 7 guys including me, but i feel like she is a whore the thing is the love i got for that fuckin girl is so huge, you have no idea and ive been trying to cahnge her and i hope she does cause i really love her

By: Bonehead

Bonehead — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 22:10:39 +0000

What this post certainly shows is that so many women out there are basically whores. Most guys don’t want to marry the town bike. Nor do they want to be the caboose of a long train. They want somebody who has exhibited some sense of self control and real discretion, like somebody who refrains from having one night stands and f – - k buddy types of relationships. It is important that a woman be truthful. Her numbers do matter. It has a bearing into who they were, who they are, and what they may be. Do you tell a prospective employer that you didn’t list your past jobs because it was all in the past? Who you marry is much more important than a job. Past behavior can be an indication of what to expect in the future. When a relationship is heading for something like marriage, a woman should be totally honest with her prospective husband, and vice versa. As a guy, if the woman that I have fallen in love with has been with 30 guys (or whatever), it should be reported honestly. Marriage ain’t just shacking up. I know because I have done both. Lying about the sexual past is no way to enter a marriage. Somehow the truth comes out sooner or later, and later generally brings a ton of problems. Just be honest about it and let the cards fall where they may. If the guy still decides to marry the gal with 30 previous guys, then he at least is marrying her based upon the truth. When you tell a lie about the sexual past, it has a way of coming out. Then the woman (or even the guy) has to be very careful and evasive about the questions that they answer. If they are not careful, the math won’t add up.

To end this post, if a girl refuses to tell a guy the pertinent facts about her previous sex life, she is more than likely hiding her colorful past, and the guy should break off the relationship, or at least keep the serious stuff out of it.

By: somegirl

somegirl — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 07:33:19 +0000

funny cuz if you ask me i’ll say 1 and i actually have slept with just 1 not 3. totally inaccurate.

By: Alex

Alex — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 17:51:24 +0000

I have had intercourse with 30 guys and had non-intercourse relations with 13. That is a lot but it was also in the past. I have cheated and deceited many people but the fact of the matter is, i feel guilty about it but there is nothing I can do about it accept move on and realize what I did is wrong. I am sure I am not the only women in this world who has done this and I am sure I will not be the last. As long as you are not going to continue the behavior and you are going to leave the lies in the past, then there is no reason to bring it up again. The person you are with does not need to know everything about you. If your partner asks how many people you have slept with, you do not need to tell them. If they love you and respect you, then they will respect the fact that you don’t want to tell them. If you are not cheating or deceiting them now, that is the most important thing. People will through the past back in your face. No matter how bad it is, nobody deserves to be disrespected and nobody is better than you or I. I believe in God. Im not preaching but I believe that He (or She) is the only perfect one and is the only one that can judge. Your parter has no right, and if in the beginning he or she starts to, than it is a red flag to get the hell out.

By: obama - president

obama - president — Sun, 24 May 2009 00:56:17 +0000

superb link bw the two………. haha……. very funny but hard to be true……anyways nice notion

By: Jason

Jason — Mon, 11 May 2009 19:31:00 +0000

There’s no such thing as a girl with game. Some just say yes more.